How to remove an especific object from an ArrayList of Integers in Java?

I looked a lot through StackOverflow. I seen the same questions and answers over and over again, but they don’t address the real problem.

There is Java. Java has ArrayList. ArrayList has the method remove().
The JDK9 Documentation says it can take the index as a parameter or the object itself that you want to be removed.
The following code does not work though.

import java.util.*;

public class Tea {
    public static void main (String[] args) {

        ArrayList<Integer> myList = new ArrayList<Integer>();

        myList.add(69);

        myList.remove( ( (int) 69 ) );

        System.out.println(myList);

    }
}

It compiles, but it does not run and so it gives the following error message:

“Exception in thread “main” java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: Index 69 out-of-bounds for length 1
at java.base/jdk.internal.util.Preconditions.outOfBounds(Preconditions.java:64)
at java.base/jdk.internal.util.Preconditions.outOfBoundsCheckIndex(Preconditions.java:70)
at java.base/jdk.internal.util.Preconditions.checkIndex(Preconditions.java:248)
at java.base/java.util.Objects.checkIndex(Objects.java:372)
at java.base/java.util.ArrayList.remove(ArrayList.java:517)
at Tea.main(Tea.java:10)”

The JVM is obviously taking the argument as the index and not the object.
Here’s the suggested solution found on the other websites:

myList.remove(new Integer(69));

It doesn’t even compile into bytecode:

“Note: Tea.java uses or overrides a deprecated API.
Note: Recompile with -Xlint:deprecation for details.”

Compiling with:
$javac Tea.java -Xlint:deprecation

Gives us:

warning: [deprecation] Integer(int) in Integer has been deprecated
    myList.remove(new Integer(69));

I looked in the deprecated list on the documentation. Couldn’t find it.
Looked the method’s documentation to have it explained to me. No explanation.

All I want to do is use the parameter as an object and not the index and get my return as a boolean (documentation says so) if it was in the ArrayList and has been removed.

Is there a way to do this? Or is it deprecated and my ctrl + f search on the deprecated methods not enough?